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5/6/09

WHaT iS aCtuALly A TruE fwEnsHip????

do all of you have fwenz???
hurmssss.....
maybe this question sound stupid to all of you but for me in this world,it is easy to have or to make fwen...
but the hardest n da toughest part is to find or to have a person who we can "really" call "fwen"....
i got a message from my fwen...
and the message sounds like dis
"its wonderful when a stanger becomes a fwen,but its sad when a fren become a stranger.I met u as a stanger,I took u as a fwen.we r fwen 4 eva n nothing can took us apart.we'll meet in heaven, where frenship never ends...."
at the end of da msg,my fwen wrote dis in capital letter:
"SEND THIS TO ALL YOUR FWEN DAT U LOVE"
i do ask my fwens,who we can really call "fwen"????
some of my fren said,
"haoloh,2 pown nk tnye!!!sng je,jwpn dye,
org yang 1st tyme kte jmpe or ckp,org 2 la kwn kte!!!!"
is it da best answer???
nope,4 me,a fren is da closest person 2 us when our family is not wif us...
am i ryte???
yeah,maybe i wrong but dat was my own opinion abt fren...
FREN.....
wat a nice word huh???
yeah,i do have fwen,bt 4 me,2 find a "true fren" its very3 hard...
actually da main reason why i wrote abt all of dis is becoz i felt very frustrated wif 1 of my fwen who i used 2 call ma "best fwen" b4...
i know nobody wants 2 know abt my story bt do i care???
hey,dis is my blog!!!
hehehe....
the person dat i was writin' abt is a guy...
he is my bez fwen when i was a student in SMK ULU KINTA...
he alwayz help me...
i came 2 dis skul when i was in form 5...
at 1st i saw him i felt dat he is "beria",hehehe...
actually i can't remember how me n him become fwen bt 1 thin' 4 sure,being his fwen is a sweet n un4gettable moment...
y i said dat???
it is becoz he is so swit,so kind,so smart n have a gud lookin'...hehehe [i can't deny it']
bt,4 me,he is juz "ma bez fwen"...hehehe
i'm not gonna tell you who he is....
hehehe...
i shre my probs wif him,he also sometyme shre his prob wif me...
he alwayz wif me when i have prob...
i said 2 my self dat i will do my bez so dat our fwenship will lst 4 eva n eva
after we got our spm results,both of us take our own path to continue wif our life...
yeah..both of us further our study bt not at a same place anymore...
sometymes,when i met him i will talk 2 him like usual,bt at the end,i started 2 realize dat both of us r not like us b4..
we r like a stanger 2 each other...
i try 2 find the reason y we became like dis bt i still could not find the answer...
during the last tyme i met him,he asked me 2 msg or call him when i have tyme n i said da same thin' 2 him...
i felt very happy at dat tyme..
u know y??
it is becoz 4 me,it is one of da best way we can be close back,there r a lot of things i wanna tell him,i wanna shre wif him...
then,after a few weeks from the last tyme we met,i try 2 contact him bt he did not pick up...
i send mssge 2 him,he never reply,i feel sad bt i keep wif my pstv thinkin' dat maybe he's busy...
i never give up...
i keep on called n mssge him,but none of my call or mssge he rply...
one day,i try 2 called him again bt he did not pick up...
then,i ask my fwen to try 2 mizcall him...
n 10 min after dat..
he mizcall my fwen back...
at that tyme,i feel like wanna scream 2 da world n tell world how sad i am...
i keep on asking my self,
"did i do anythin' wrong 2 him?"
"did i hurt his feelin'?"
bt still in the end i can't find the answer....
mayb he don't wanna be my fwen anymore...
i still cannot stop thinkin' y he do dat 2 me...
i send him da mssge dat i wrote b4...
n he did rply my mssge....
when i heard my mssge tone n saw a mssge from him in my inbox,i felt so happy!!!
but the moment i read da mssge dat he send 2 me,my tears strt 2 fall down...
in 1 of his mssge,he said dat he never know da exact meanin' of a true fwenship..
it makes me so shock...
dis is 1 of his mssge....
"I thought I've found da true frenship but at the end I realized dat everybody change through xperience n tyme"
i cry when i read his mssge,i dunno wat mke him wrote dat..
is he sayin' dat i'm changing or him???
dat question never fade from my mind...dat was his last mssge 2 me,he did not reply my mssge anymore...
his action really touch me..
i never xpect dat action from a person who i call "bez fwen"...
so,starting from dat moment i mke my decission not 2 cntct or mssge him anymore...
mybe dat was the bez solution 4 our prob...
i can't lie dat i feel very sad n still lookin' 4 answer 2 all of my questions...
bt i know,every prob has it own solution,sme goes 2 our prob,
all i can do now is pray 4 da bez...
after wat he hve done 2 me,no matter wat happen,
4 me,
in my heart,
he is still my bezfwen...
many thing i wanna tell him,i wanna shre wif him my happy n sad moment bt i know its juz a dream dat will never come true...
everytyme i think of him,i will feel sad n start 2 cry....
i think i cannot keep on typing anymore...
or else i will start 2 cry n seriously i'm so ugly if i cry...hehehe...
i think i have 2 stop now...
btw,2 my fwen dat i wrote abt him on da top:
"I wanna appologize u if u read my blog n read dis post u feel hurt wif wat i wrote....
I didn't mean 2 hurt u,juz wanna tell wat i feel...sory...bye...."


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